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punctuality

19 Friday Mar 2010

Posted by azahar in friends, language, psychology, work

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manners, punctuality, respect

How important is punctuality to you?

I live in a country where you are still considered to be “on time” if you arrive up to 15 minutes after the appointed hour. To me that is late! But I try to go along with things like this and don’t let it bother me much … until it also starts happening in my working life. Because I do expect my students to show up on time (just like they expect me to be here waiting for them and prepared to give a class) and for the most part that works out. But yesterday was the third time my Spanish/English classes with María Paz went for a burton … and I just can’t function like that.

Twice she just didn’t show up (no call, no nuthin) and yesterday, after having asked me to move the class forward half an hour, she turned up twenty minutes late! And well, okay, not the end of the world or anything, and if it were just about getting together for lunch or to hang out it probably wouldn’t bother me [much!] … but I can’t *work* like that. And so the classes have now been postponed – probably indefinitely. On the other hand, María Paz is great for being spontaneous and coming out to the hospital with me at a moment’s notice. So we are trying to work out a way to keep seeing each other more often without any sort of rigid schedule.

But no classes. Just hanging out… well, maybe.

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role reversal

04 Sunday Nov 2007

Posted by azahar in animals & pets, home, nablopomo, psychology

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There’s been odd cat behaviour going on at casa az lately.

Some of you may recall the cat fights that resulted from playing a video of fighting cats on my computer – gosh, almost a year ago now. This ended up with my two boys – previously best mates – becoming territorial enemies and not being able to be in the same room together for almost six months. Since then they seem to have calmed down and have accepted each other again, though they still don’t snuggle up together like they used to.

During the cat fight period Sunny was the aggressive one, though most of the time he seemed as scared as Azar when he would suddenly attack – almost as if a button had been pushed and he was doing it against his will. So I was very relieved to see them finally getting along together again and even play-fighting from time to time (without a horrible battle ensuing).

But about two weeks ago this started changing again. I noticed Azar starting to pick more serious fights with Sunny, approaching him while he was asleep and behaving in an ‘in-yer-face’ threatening manner, and I thought … wtf?

I really don’t get it. I mean, Azar seemed like the ‘victim’ all throughout the ‘pee wars’ and so appeared to be quite content later on when things settled down again. But it’s like there’s a role reversal happening, which is really stupid on Azar’s part because Sunny outweighs him by almost 2 kilos and also has the use of both his front paws and claws (Azar’s left front leg looks like this). In fact, the other day Azar had a huge gash over his left eye from one of these spats (that he’d started!) so I honestly don’t know why he has started behaving like this.

Any ideas?

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right brain vs left brain

20 Saturday Oct 2007

Posted by azahar in psychology, quizzes

≈ 15 Comments

Further to the right brain/left brain quiz . . .

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Is the dancer spinning clockwise or counter-clockwise?

If clockwise, then you use more of the right side of the brain
and vice versa.

Most of us would see the dancer turning anti-clockwise though
you can try to focus and change the direction; see if you can do it.

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