This is my sister Susan (aka Pipocas)
There’s the family you’re born into and the family you choose. It started off as kind of a joke, telling the doctors at the private hospital that Susan was my sister so that they would let her visit that first night I was admitted for observation last May. Then we decided to maintain the ruse after I was transferred to Virgen del RocΓo hospital for the emergency colon resection. Sometime between then and I’m not sure when, it turned out that we actually were sisters…
Aside from owing her my life (not an exaggeration – if she hadn’t called that afternoon and then immediately taken me to hospital I would have died that night), I feel so grateful for all that Susan has given me. For her friendship, first and foremost. Some of my best memories are now of the two of us talking and laughing – there always seems to be a lot of laughing going on when we get together. For the countless hospital visits and doctor’s appointments made bearable by her company. For all those lunches and making feel truly spoiled and cared for. And the trips! For the road trip last October that was her gift to me. For very generously paying for all our meals on the Morocco trip, as well as the expenses incurred after we got stranded. For helping me keep focused with my plans for the future. For always being supportive. And for believing in me when I was down, which gave me the courage to start believing in myself again.
Thanks, Sis, for everything.

It is so true that the sisters of our hearts, the ones we choose to have as sisters, are so frequently much closer and deeper sisters than the sisters we were provided with by our mothers.
So good that you have a true sister.
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Sometimes you CAN pick your family…. or they pick you…
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Trump- Two of hearts. π
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Awww… I don’t know what to say! Thank you. This was exceptionally nice. You have done so much for me as well.
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In so many ways, az, you are one lucky lady.
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I love my biological sisters, but my ‘sister of the heart’ is not related to me at all. She just completely gets me and is there for me. There is nothing I couldn’t tell her and I know if I rang her at 3 in the morning having a real crisis, she’d drop everything to help me.
Sounds like you and Pip are the same. Isn’t it great? π
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It’s good that you’ve found family. I feel like I’ve found family in my blogging buddies, who worried when I was gone “too long.”
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My “sister of the heart” is my sister, Shirin.
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Actually, now that I think about it, my other “sister of the heart” is actually my “brother of the heart”, Robert. We talk on the phone almost every day and about anything I would talk to my sister about.
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